I have many students who perform great in written grammar tasks but fail when it comes to speaking activities. Many learners confess feeling more confident in reading and writing than speaking. Many students invest much time studying and exercising from books but neglect the practical activities.
French writer André Gide wrote in his work Fruits of the Earth (1897): “While other people were publishing and working (and I add studying from books), I, on the contrary, devoted three years of travel to forgetting all that I had learnt with my head. This unlearning was slow and difficult; it was of more use to me than all the learning imposed by men, and was really the beginning of an education”.
It comes to a point in language learning that we should drop books, take courage, and start speaking. It might be difficult at the beginning and results might come slowly; but if we are constant with practicing, great improvement and personal satisfaction are guaranteed.
The biggest fears related to speaking are the fear of making mistakes, the fear of not being understood and the fear of freezing out while speaking.
Here are a few tips:
1. with regards to the fear of making mistakes, you can start by paying attention to how non native English speakers communicate, and you will realize that many of them make mistakes when speaking. Accept the fact that making mistakes is normal and it’s not a problem. Train and practice in order to make your speech clear in its meaning: the most important thing is to convey the information.
2. With regards to the fear of not being understood, accept the fact that this is also a normal situation when communicating with others. We often fail to be understood (and to understand others) even when we speak our native language. Try to relax when speaking, use fewer words and concentrate on expressing the message in the simplest way. Read my article entitled Keep it Simple (13th June 2025) for more specific tips.
3. With regards to the fear of freezing out while speaking, this relates to confidence and/or the idea of not knowing enough words. Self confidence in language learning can be trained. Start alone with role play exercises, speaking aloud and acting dialogues. You can do it in front of a mirror so you can also practice postures. Then start practicing with people you feel relaxed with. Continue practicing, and with some courage, start communicating with different people and in different situations. If you freeze out don’t worry: start again with a new sentence. But keep practicing: practice makes confidence.
The idea of not knowing enough words is very common in language learners. Introduce more practice with synonyms and opposites and semantic fields and keep learning new words. Practice sentences with new vocabulary.









